Our Why
My journey to creating Togetherwise began as a financial separation mediator. I witnessed firsthand how assumptions and an information gap could cause even the most loving couples to drift apart and separate. It broke my heart to see great loves end over issues that could potentially have been resolved with honest, proactive conversations right from the beginning.
That experience taught me the true value of being intentional about love. I founded Togetherwise with a single purpose: to help couples avoid that painful path by building stronger foundations from the start.
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Bettina Plendl,
Founder of Togetherwise
What We Do Differently
​While our process can result in a legal document, we're not lawyers. We're relationship facilitators. We don't focus on what could go wrong; instead, we help you articulate what will make your relationship strong and resilient for years to come. Our approach is designed to be a positive, unifying experience that builds the understanding and trust you need to face any challenge together.
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Our Philosophy
At Togetherwise, our philosophy is simple: proactive love is powerful love.
We've seen how unasked questions and unspoken assumptions can slowly erode even the
strongest relationships. Our mission is to help you build the clarity and resilience to withstand
life's challenges. not by planning for failure, but by creating a solid foundation that ensures your
great love lasts.
We believe that honest, open conversations early in a relationship create unshakeable trust and
partnership that grows stronger over time.